Point of View...friends and more than

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I would like to tell my readers about a friend of mine who I had met in 2008. His name is Allen Mcalister. He is a very sweet guy to everyone he meets. I met him over a dating site for gay people. We chatted for a while before we had our first meeting. I will admit he is very good looking and in some ways cute and to me very sexy. Anyhow, we hung out together for a while and then we parted for a little close to two years. Now, I first of all will admit I thought about him a lot. The things we did together and such. Then in 2009 we connected again. This time I found out from him he had moved to Florida. Well, now here is where it gets interesting. I had no job and my roommate at the time wanted some place different and so did I. I wanted to get together with Allen so bad that I just had to be with him. This feeling for him which I still have had taken over. I was going to move to Florida and be with him. So a year had went by and this past September 2010 I made the move to Florida. Well, I met Allen and that same spark had came back to life when I met him. As time went by we went to places and well it happened. We had slept together just like we had done two years before. Then it happened our relationship hit a very tough and heartbreaking spot. It was my mistake for not telling what should have been told to the right person. I even hurt myself so bad in the process to top it all off. Not to mention I hurt the one I love and that is Allen. And my roommate was mad at me too. So I was in a jam that I had never been in before in my life. This had gone on for more than two weeks. Then I made another mistake after another with the issue. Asking lame questions and staying in my room crying my eyes out and such. One misunderstanding after another was circulating and it was a big mess. So two weeks had pasted and one day my roommate had started texting Allen to see if he knew what was going on with me. I was in my room crying over this whole mess. And in that very same hour Allen pulls up to the front door of where I live. Allen right then took me outside and we had a talk about all of this that was going on. And every thing he had to say I had coming to me. My stupid mistakes just went out of hand and the person I care about the most was hurt and my roommate was offended very much and I even hurt myself. Allen and I talked for better than an hour. I felt better now that everything was out and amends was in progress and still is and my roommate says that everything is ok with him now. My point of view is this when you have someone you love in your life don't hurt them in any way. Treat them with love and kindness and talk things out when things seem bad or not right. Respect them and yourself in the process and tell them how much you love them for being there for you and be there for them when they need someone to talk with. And before you know it things will get better and I will admit this when I had that talk with Allen I felt better myself and I still feel better. I always have believed things get better.